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The first is a ratio. This means that when the reward Submissive seeks discipline and training punishment is given out depends on the number of times that the target behavior occurs. Continuous means a 1: Disciplone time the submissive does a particular thing, they receive the response. If something is a high priority or Centerville PA sex dating something is seekw new, this is probably the schedule you want, but as Women looking for men sex Lihue said before, it will nearly impossible Submissive seeks discipline and training maintain this for every single behavior you are targeting.

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This is a lower investment than a continuous schedule, but can often have the same behavioral effect. A fixed ratio schedule tends to produce a steady rate of high-frequency behavior as the submissive tries to get as many rewards as possible, as quickly as possible.

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But over time, there is a net overall improvement in behavior. On a variable interval, the moments of judgment are not known to the submissive. You might say that their room will be inspected three times Chub versbttm looking sunday week, but not tell them when.

This can remove that scalloping effect and see a more consistent pattern of behavior. Overall, however, the effects of this schedule are much less potent, as you can see in the graph.

This can be corrected by making the punishments and rewards greater. A set disciplune of time must pass before a reward or punishment will be administered after the previous reward or punishment.

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Differential Reinforcement DR is the next step up form simple operant conditioning and schedules. It has two important characteristics, first that it emphasizes positive reinforcement over all others, and second that focuses on behavior related to the target behavior as well. The reason that researchers emphasize this approach is that study after study Suhmissive proven that positive reinforcement is a more seesk conditioning tool that yields more consistent results that are more resistant to Submissive seeks discipline and training.

Positive reinforcement also has less negative side effects, such as resentment or depression, which can accompany a strict punishment approach. The approaches are positive in nature in that we find ways to use rewards to motivate the submissive to Submissiive better instead of punishing them Submissive seeks discipline and training their present ways, which may have been ingrained over a period of years or decades.

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While punishments can be combined with these procedures to create a Submissive seeks discipline and training powerful change program, DR procedures are often used without punishment procedures accompanying them. Used to reduce a target behavior over time to acceptable levels by rewarding improvements reduction in the behavioreven if the behavior is still present. A submissive who normally smokes 12 cigarettes a day is rewarded for each day that they only smoke After a week or two, the number is reduced to 10, then 9, Housewives want real sex Arvilla so on until the behavior is eliminated.

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Used to eliminate a behavior by rewarding the absence of Submissive seeks discipline and training behavior, regardless of what other behaviors are present. This is particularly useful for frequent, Submissive seeks discipline and training, and repetitive behaviors.

Since rewards are given, even for different undesirable behavior, it should only be used for the elimination of high-priority problem behaviors. A submissive with a habit of calling people by their legal names at public events. The submissive is rewarded for each event where this does not happen, even if the other names they call them are not necessarily appropriate or polite.

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Not because you the dom prefers that position, but simply because it prevents the alternative. A new sub is rewarded for using the correct prescribed form of address for their dominant and Submissive seeks discipline and training. They are punished for specific incorrect forms of address, such as use of legal names. And other forms of address used are ignored. Process for Implementing a Training Program.

Observe, Collect Data, Document Do not trust your own memory or focus. If there is a behavior that you want to increase or decrease, you need to keep Need sex tonight in Keizer Oregon of it at a base level.

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Make a Plan and Write it Down Plans can be adjusted, but if you do not have a one in a place where you can review it and make adjustments as necessary, chances are you will lose track and fail to follow through. Share the Plan with the Submissive At least some of it It is not necessary to tell the submissive everything. If they know the whole plan of when schedules will be adjusted, etc. However, at minimum, you want to tell them what behaviors are being targeted and in what way they will be published or rewarded.

This will reduce confusion, anger, and resentment, as well as the amount of time that it takes for training to be effective. Nothing will make the training and likely your relationship fail faster than a submissive who knows they are being punished or rewarded but does not know why. If you divert from the plan and are inconsistent, those pattern recognition systems will draw conclusions and alter Nude Bozeman Montana women accordingly.

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You may end up inadvertently reinforcing a Submissive seeks discipline and training other than those you disciplin. Observe, Collect Data, Document Keep close track of progress. And make sure you let the submissive know that progress is being made, especially if punishments are being used or if the Submissive seeks discipline and training has been a particularly difficult struggle for them.

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If you are making progress on the target behavior but your relationship is becoming too distant and cold, than it may not be worth it to continue, at least sdeks Submissive seeks discipline and training same manner that you are.

Making adjustments is appropriate and necessary in almost every plan. When your observations indicate an adjustment is necessary, return to step.

The path to discipline will not only save a person's life, it will also give it meaning. How? . The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships. There are three major reasons or goals for submissive training. These are the things that the submissive wants to learn or change and has asked for help with. 12 hours ago English Gentleman Sensual Dominant seeks Submissive lady to in the Sub to be truly a sub that enjoy being controlled and disciplined. I do respect the limits. I like spanking,obedience training and more. if you are intrested.

It is smart to vary the reward or provide options for rewards so that the Fuck body Williamsport Indiana can select a reinforcer from the inventory that is of interest at that moment i. You have been unpredictable and untrustworthy. You must instead be consistent Submissive seeks discipline and training reinforcing appropriate behavior and punishing inappropriate behavior.

They may have a physical limitation that makes the alternate behavior not worth the reward. For instance, a bad knee can make a kneeling posture painful after a short amount of time, and a reward may not be enough to override that. The behavior is too complex or advanced to remember without constant reference. Putting an entire 30 page protocol manual Submissive seeks discipline and training practice all at once is unlikely to be successful.

Effective training focuses on a few behaviors at a time and expands or builds on those behaviors once they are consistently and confidently performed. Avoid increasing the work-to-reward ratio too quickly.

Use continual observation to figure the correct time interval for reinforcement. Some submissives desire a challenge to their abilities. Failure to the adjust schedule to match their success has created a lack of contest. This problem can occur when working with two submissives at the same time, using the shorter of the two DRO time intervals.

The submissive who could handle a longer time interval does Women looking sex Woodbury Connecticut feel challenged. It is important to help the submissive display the appropriate behavior under changing circumstances e. If all of your training is done exclusively in private in your basement dungeon.

And Submissive seeks discipline and training you search around, you will ind a lot of advice specific to each of these complicated situations. Are they more experienced than you are?

Newer dominants can learn a lot from seasoned servants. Consider your history together. Are they new to you or have you been together for years? Discipljne they have other partners? Polyamory and open Submissive seeks discipline and training are very common in Submissive seeks discipline and training kink community, but they add extra challenges.

Do they have a sub of their own? If so, to what extent does your control over them extend to that relationship? Do they have another dominant? Are they in school? Do they have a job?

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The information and theories represented in this handout and the accompanying presentation represents the work of many prominent behavioral theorists, including, but not limited to: Vladimir Bekhterev, Ivan Pavlov. Submissive seeks discipline and training, Albert Bandura, Sidney W. Tolman, Murray Sidman, John B. Greetings Sir, I would would love Hot girls sex Sulphur read more of your thoughts on the Submissive seeks discipline and training aspect — as in the benefits of operant vs classical conditioning?

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Our particular approach is that everyone in a power exchange dynamic is in service. One is not anx or more deserving of respect or consideration than the other. And we believe that is the reason why most of us have been with our partners for years or decades while many Domly-Dom, High-Horse, Greater-Than-Thou types tend to have relationships for disciplibe Submissive seeks discipline and training months at a time.

If you disagree with me, by all means, write up your own views somewhere. But being a condescending asshole accomplishes nothing.

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And no one ever has to worry about their ability to orgasm being lost to any conditioning at all. Such things are contextual and the funny thing about humans? We can literally discard conditioning at will.

What I really appreciate here is that there is no role essentialism bias. Because, while I fully accept that there really are actual Dominant humans among actual submissive humans, BDSM is apart from that biological reality and allows anyone regardless of actual type to engage in play that permits exploration of counter roles in a safe and potentially fulfilling way.

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Kink As Therapy For many people, exploring their sexuality and delving into power exchange can be very therapeutic. There are three major reasons or goals for submissive training. How they like their food prepared Their daily or weekly schedule and what you can do to help with it How much pressure they like during a massage What are their favorite fetishes Protocols, rules, and consequences Submissive seeks discipline and training. Do not let those be forgotten Examples: These factors are used to determine: The training approach that is most likely to yield success.

And proactive is good. Is everyone pretty solid on the concept of classical conditioning? Now, lets dig duscipline the big four.

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