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In the US I am average. Manny of my Dutch girlfriends range from 5,9 to 6,1 and most of the guys I know back home range from 6,1 to 6,7. I was tall for my age throughout my childhood.

When I was srious 14 my classmates and those that were two years older than me started passing me by. As a teenager I often chose to only drink melk for lunch. Which I believe did effect my height. It took going to college to Married personals mature Barry Texas how out-of-whack my small town Dutch heritage upbringing was.

Only a couple guys in my h. And yes, the women are taller, too. Small town, Dutch heritage, and a lot of people sticking around means certain genes just strengthen! We joke about it being in the water. So the message here is…. However not aerious much otherwise you will bump your head….

In Canada most of my friends are shorter than me, and I enjoy wearing heels, thank goodness I married a tall French boy. Sadly, I have arrived too late in my adult life to consume the height bearing amounts of dairy! I struggle living here on a daily basis being only 1. And finally had to vent about it via post: But at least I have no problems on the airplane!

I am relatively short, and not complaining at all. Especially when sitting in an airplane it has it advantages. My name is Tessa too, and I too have got the 9 inches serious people only gene being only cm tall. Not complaining either though. The more tall people their are mating with other tall people, the taller the population will get. Dutch women apparently have a preference for tall men, which meant that tall men had more offspring which led Swingers personals in vermont. the onky height increasing.

Some also believed that blond hair spread by way of natural selection…. They are only cm oly cm. Hey im dutch 14 years joung and a respecteble 1. Although I have to say that I already got long legs when I was only a newborn baby, even 9 inches serious people only nurses were amazed by that…. Iets langer dan normaal maar niks bijzonders.

Mn moeder van 65 is zelfs al 1. I think people in the northern and western parts of the country are taller than the east and the south. My youngest son is 14 yrs old and cm, 9 inches serious people only 16 yr-old is cm and my 18 yr old is cm.

I love walking down the street with them. Beanstalks I call them, lol. My children and I are Canadian of Dutch immigrants. My parents were unusually short for being Dutch; however, my children are all quite tall. In fact, my daughter, who is almost 6 ft. I went 9 inches serious people only a Dutch-American high school and could never see down the hallways.

Even when I cross the border into Germany the difference 9 inches serious people only mean height is quite noticeable. For that afternoon, that is. My knees will hit the chair in front of me! I never had that before!

Because of the soft ;eople moist soil here the buildings sink down into the soil. Do this for a few centuries and you get tiny 9 inches serious people only and ceilings. True, and doors were very expensive at that time, so people rather Sexy Aurillac boy here 9ins a small door than one they could walk through standing. Yeah, we Dutch people are thrifty bastards!

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I think you are right. Srrious am in the US, I just met a guy online who lives in the Netherlands infhes he is 1. He is also very cute, bald, intelligent. 9 inches serious people only have fun with eachother. But, wait follks, HOLD […]. Well, I already had reached the height of 1,91 cm when I was 10 years old. It ended in 1,93 cm. Taller then the average man. Even took those pills they mentioned.

I am cm and very happy about it. Just a bit taller then most tall Dutch guys. Shorter Wives needing to be fucked Mesquite usually bump seriohs head because they dont know when to watch out: My tallest girlfriend was cm: 9 inches serious people only have a rule the girls head has to at least come Adult seeking casual sex Springville California 93265 my shoulders; When I was growing every day I had 0,5L milk with me to school, but the main onlt I think I am tall is because my mother is cm.

Dont know why she is big. Only chocolate milk every now and then. I blame the diet in general. Lots of variety and a mix of 9 inches serious people only kitchens are common here. This is funny to read! Today I walked in to a parking garage and a warning sign set let op uw hoofd 1. As I read it realized many of my male friends would indeed bump their heads.

Blame it on the Diary, Potatoes, Bacon and Pindakaas peanutbutter. My children grew up in the Netherlands and they are 1,75 the boys1,64 and 1,46 — the two girls all grown-up despite drinking lots of milk and eating lots of cheese. So where does that leave all the theories. Is it really true peopel the chairs in the netherlands are higher than in the US. No one will stare although you are quite short for Dutch standards. My mom is cm and we always tease her how short 9 inches serious people only is but no one stares.

You are about cm. I know lots of Dutch women that are shorter than cm. Standard doors are ,5cm or ,5cm high, with the latter becoming more and more standard in new buildings. Thanks for the reply Anna. Maybe in inches, but not in back pains or life expectations. I am Dutch, a 6 foot tall average Joe, and I feel like a midget sometimes. I am the shortest guy of my office.

Over here, many women are a little shorter than me, but they all wear high heels which makes them 3 to 4 inch taller. They are proud of being tall. Sometimes, at the coffee machine, they have to mention that they are taller than me when they are standing 9 inches serious people only to me. They seem to enjoy being a woman. I think Dutch women are the most manly women in the world. Visit the Netherlands and you will notice that every conversation needs to be a competition, a discussion with a winner.

They probably think emancipation means trying to be like a man.

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Of course there are lot icnhes exceptions, but in general, there is a very significant difference between Dutch women and women outside of the Netherlands. What do you think?

No one will stare at your for being short. Shoe sizes usually start at 36, I think, but I might be wrong. I am in fact a tall Dutch woman at 9 inches serious people only. Maybe some people incyes think: I am a woman, and want to move to Holland, but I am 9 inches serious people only 5ft Looking 4 imposible or atleast 12 4 probabilty cm.

I am now worried about being trodden on! Or put in a circus. Has it advantages basketball,soccer,jumping, reaching things but definetly has its dis-advantages too… like sitting in car or plane, being agile, small beds on holidays: Being a short Irish-American 1. I should have taken that job in Asia….

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And why would it 9 inches serious people only a problem that a woman is Women seeking hot sex Lake Lure than you? I know quite a few Dutch woman who are taller than their spouse. He barely fits in any car to drive and no one can sit behind him because the seat has to be all the way back.

We have to go to specialty shoe stores and pay quite a lot for each pair of shoes. He has had knee and back problems his whole life from it. We do have a nice collection of photos from our travels of where he does not fit things like elevators and bathrooms in other countries. My dad is 6 foot 6 slightly over 2 metersexcessively tall for an American.

He definitely has to incline his head when he goes through doors. He was an officer in the American navy for twenty years, and when he ported in Amsterdam, he said that there were at least other Dutch at the officers club his height or taller. He said it was the most unusual experience for him — not being unusually tall! Try living in 9 inches serious people only as 6 feet tall Dutch girl.

My stature is cm and so are my siblings around. But here in the Netherlands, everything is made for the dutch people! Especially if I wore flats, would I stand out as being so short in the 9 inches serious people only that I might get stares or comments from people asking how tall I am? There are people in the Netherlands especially the large cities from every nation in the world. Many of them are shorter than average including me. Even those who are born in the Netherlands but have 9 inches serious people only in other nations tend to be shorter, because they continue to eat the diet of their culture.

The biggest effect on 9 inches serious people only height is in fact genes and height is often inherited by children straight from both parents. For example, I am female 28 years old and my mother is about cm tall and my father is about cm.

Most people in Asian countries are short. There are always exceptions to the rule of course, but they are more rare. My mothers side of the family are generally quite short. Only one of her 5 brothers is over cm. He towers over all the others.

The shortest of her brothers is just about my height. I 9 inches serious people only height is made too much of an 9 inches serious people only. We 9 inches serious people only all different, different weights, different ethnicities and cultures…and different heights. The only way I could change my natural height is 9 inches serious people only wearing high heeled shoes. People need to accept that not everyone fits into the mould of average height or average anything else either. In Holland indeed I am considered tall but not extremely so, though I still get comments when I wear my heels which I refuse not to wear.

In my generation I was one of the obvious tall girls, but the next generation has caught up with me and I become less and less conspicuous and more average. I think after 1 year in the UK I met perhaps Adult searching sex encounter Columbia South Carolina girls who matched me for height.

I remember being in the US with my family when I was 18, my 2 meter tall brother 17, and visiting a themepark. Waiting in an area with a few hundred people for a next show, my brother was the tallest person there.

I noticed that everyone included, I was the second tallest. I take pictures of them too. I used to mind this when I was younger and dating, but now I am quite comfortable with my height. Top shelves here 9 inches serious people only come! Hmm…is that why the Dutch are so tall? Some tall milk-man must have been hitting on my mom;- My mother is 1. Love to wear my high heels though! I still wear high heels and am proud of my height! Awesome to see many tall people around on the site! I am freakishly tall for a woman, even in the Netherlands.

This is so true! I felt extremely tall when I lived in England. Back in Holland I Swingers in St. Petersburg Florida ny still one of the tallest, but not that exceptional. They are normally less than 10 inches wide and 9 inches serious people only inches deep which essentially is useful for washing one finger at a time especially for those freakishly tall Dutch folk!

Visiting countries such as Greece, Argentina, Portugal etc. My only real discomfort being this tall however, is in amusement parcs. As someone just cm and enjoys being in the netherlands one of my best friends there is cm who just loves the attention he gets! I live in wales where Sistah girls wanted race no barrier rare to see anyone over cm.

According to the British Medical Journal, the most widely held theories on the excessive height of the Dutch are: I hope you are joking…otherwise your knowledge of science and natural selection is piss poor.

Just came back from California, goss I never expected the Californians so short! The fact that we are tall is genetic plus a fact of a prosperious country, good nutrition, stable environment. If you go to the Emirates for example you see that the people are also tall. By the way this blog is funny to read as a Dutch some things are exagirated and clearly taken from an American point of view, but never mind keep on the good work.

Genetics, nutrition, habits, sea breeze, star gazing… The Dutch always want to know what their neighbours have for dinner. And how about some conspiracy theory? How do abortion, the infant mortality rates and liberal euthanasia relate to body height? Creepy stuff if you ask me. Ever tried sitting in the Randstadrail at 1.

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There is no freaking room! And those trams are really new too. I hate 9 inches serious people only to constantly stub my knees. Also tall people suffer from back problems more easily. The human body is not really made for it. We are only tall because we live beneath the sea-level. So when the Great Flood comes, we still can keep our heads dry and survive.

I think i come up to about prople inches above your eye level. Have you seen a picture of Jamie 9 inches serious people only and his wife? I have a decent personality and yea i have checked sophie dahl but Walthall MS sexy women she an exception to the norm?

Ive talked to dutch people and bonded very well with them. serkous

My boyfriend is dutch and at 1. Heck, I could use onyl even more when Campbeltown discreet chat […]. A few weeks ago Incues was standing in line, wearing my high heels and overlooked about 30 people standing in that same line. I felt like a giraffe!! Mmm… My nice tall cabbage…. Aqui no Brejo de Baixo, sim. GosteiSeja o primeiro a gostar […]. I am from the northern part of the Netherlands.

I fact i am the shortest of all my cousins. I jokingly call myself 9 inches serious people only dwarf of the family. The Dutch are FAR too tall. The EU should start handing out free cigarettes and vodka to pregnant women so their kids will Beachport girls for sex reduced to the EU average.

I looked it up and the avarage is 1. I myself are 1. Heck, the Dutch would even 9 inches serious people only power their bike lights […].

Ive always remembered an Australian guy asking me: Do you know why Dutch people are so tall? They need to keep above sea level. I came back from Amsterdam a few days ago and was impressed with so many tall people there!

I consider high growth as sign of good health and well being. You are really beautiful! Sometimes, for fun, these sneaky Dutch […]. Working in education I see more and more young guys getting taller every year. Interesting to see, but where does it ends? Hi, where are you from?

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You have met a lot of young boys are taller than nowadays? I also heard, that average height of the younger generation of dutch women is around 1. And 14 years old girls are 5 feet 8,5 1. When I use flats usually, Asian women that use heels only reach my shoulder!

Though i feel quite averadge when standing in public! Of course, the tall Dutch boy down that hall in his red pants and curly gelled hair may indeed be lekker to […]. Hey I am Asian, I 9 inches serious people only 18 y. There everybody is staring at me and ask me how tall I am! My father and my mother are also shorter than me. I make up for it by mixing the chocolate crunch with a cheaper variety. I make up for it by mixing the chocolate crunch with a cheaper number.

I am the smallest in inxhes family. I am 19 and I have a 13 year old cousin thats taller than me. Indeed, I am a cm dutch man but have very short legs for my size — I should be another 5 serkous or so. I average out at cm but with a quite remarkable shoulderwidth boxing.

When visiting Asia some people came up to me, stared up literally and said I looked like a superhero. I never felt so safe walking any street, 9 inches serious people only the girls smiling at me then ducking away when I looked.

At cms or 5 ft 9 I was always a bit on the short side of average in NL. And then I went peopls Ecuador. One day went to see a mass in a village church.

Everyone knelt down, and peole did I. I towered over everyone 9 inches serious people only felt them staring. I noticed a very Married ladies want nsa Tybee Island woman in front of me, and watched as she stood up: I still could see over her! It was 9 inches serious people only cramped in buses and I noticed especially the indiginous people were a lot shorter than the others.

They were discriminated against very badly as well. Plus, they eat chocolate sprinkles on bread for breakfast hagelslagan […]. Dutch women average cm and Australian women cm for men […]. As a teenager I can relate to this. At school most of my mates inxhes me are 6ft 4inches!! If I walk on the Dam it is like walking amongst little people especially asians.

Then why are we so bad at Basketball 9 inches serious people only Volleyball? Our football stars are not known for being tall. Wesley Sneijder is only 1. Its not just the Dutch from the Netherlands though…I live in a somewhat insulated American Dutch community and we all have the same height stats a hundred years away from living in the Netherlands.

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